Well, here goes everything! On our quest to define emotions and their place in our lives, today we are going to spotlight a very taboo emotion and that my friends is Horny! (Although, this is more a chemical reaction to stimulus but none the less……can make us very emotional!)
The response of fans everywhere concerned about their emotional health want to hear about this “feeling” and I am just the one to tell it! (OK, maybe just a few friends on my Facebook feed but these people matter most today!) Emotionally Intelligent People are the most affective and productive people on the planet and I am stalling by stammering on and on and on…………so let’s get to it. (could you tell?) 🙂
Horny is defined as of or resembling a horn, AND “informally” according to Google as feeling or sexual excitement. Yeah buddy! It is ironic that the first definition immediately reminds me of the shape of a ………………………..penis. (There, I said it!)
Anatomically speaking however, emotions like sexual arousal and “horniness” actually can be explained in simple terms scientifically so for the rest of this article, I will try to be as PG rated as possible because really, we live in a society today that considers Sex very marketable and quite uncensored if you ask me.
Have you watched Youtube, MTV or The Wendy Show lately? Yesterday, The Wendy Show featured Terrance J and his role in his upcoming movie called, “The Perfect Match” and on this video from yesterday on her website, clip 4:38 shows a very steamy moment where TJ does some seriously “hot” moves with his co-star, Cassie Ventura.
Now, until yesterday, I was so far removed from Hollywood and the latest that I had no idea who these two star peeps were, but you bet your ass, I do now! Their steamy trailer scene made me full aware of the erotica portrayed in their new movie and this tells me there is no question, we live in a millennia where Sex is the prime mover when it comes to Hollywood and controlling our emotions. (Has it not always been?) But now a days, it is ON! No sex on film, no mula’ in the producers pocket. No reason to tune in. It burns the question inside of me. “Were these two actors actually turned on by the “act” or were they completely numb to “it?” My guess, the sexual charge was there because I sure got sweaty! LOL!
So what happens to us when we get Horny?
A chemical called Oxytocin, is released from the back side of the Pituitary gland, which is in the brain. “The Master Gland” (the Pituitary Gland), controls our growth and entire hormone system and is a huge part of our chemical cycle. And the hormone Oxytocin, is a chemical synthesizer which amplifies plasma formation in the body and science says that when we (ah hem…..ejaculate or orgasm), we increase the levels of plasma in our body and that my friends, is a great thing! People get paid to donate that stuff where blood donations are typically free. (Makes you wonder why you get paid for the white stuff?) Getting horny is no more than a chemical “charge up” that reminds you everything is in working order. It’s a good thing. (but like all things………mod-er-at-tion… of sorts. It is a very POWERFUL reaction to an internal desire and you need to be educated about it.)
Plasma is a priceless element of the four fundamental states of matter and is electronically conducted. (Check out Wikipedia’s link on the physics of this molecular structure! It is not just about platelets and blood my friends but a pure UNADULTERATED electromagnetic universal bond!) I though we were talking sex and semen? Apparently not!
Damn! My head is spinning! Moving on………….
So, when we get Horny, it is safe to say, that the electric charge of our bodies rises to a state beyond, the usual magnetic charge, and while we wiggle in our seats trying to figure out how to handle this intense and powerful emotion, we should take a moment to get to know Chakra #2. The Sacral Chakra. Ah……yes………the energy body’s storage unit which controls our response to feelings and tough emotional swings such as jealousy, sensuality, intimacy and connection.
The Sacral Chakra is the 1st seat of our emotional body and it is where we learn to connect with others and that connection either develops or destroys relationships. It also is one step above the primal red Root Chakra which is all about survival and creation. You have sex. You get impregnated. You have baby. BORING!
It is not until we rise into our second Chakra that we can tap into this amazing stored emotional energy and our glands and reproductive organs morph into their own system. The key to releasing this charge in a magical way, is unlocked “it” (sex) ONLY when you find a safe and nurturing partner to be with. The troublesome thing is these are the areas that youth become super charged in and yet, have no real mentorship when it comes to handling arousal. We parents just tell our hormonal young folks…….. “No! No! NO! NO!
And leave them starting at us confused and like…………………………
They don’t know what it means to feel like that!
Educate them for shit’s sake!
And I am going to say this…………!
Even as a married adult, it was not until I trusted my husband enough to ground myself down and open my heart up to him by telling him how I felt. Even when I needed to fulfill my NEEDS! Until I could relate to my emotions and honor them, (without being embarrassed by my body, my imperfections or my attitude), the level of arousal in my life had been limited and I lost out on a lot of great happiness.
It was when I learned how to effectively engage in a bonding martial relationship (without apologies) and became honest about everything, that our sex life exploded.
It was when we learned how to fight without injury that sex became wonderful.
It was when we learned how to laugh at life, without apology, that our partnership and sex drive increased to levels that DO NOT EXIST ON THIS PLANET!
And we have tapped into some Universal Plasma Power Plant from the cosmos, sooooooo…..this Scorpio Queen KNOWS what it is like to be HORNY! (And at middle age, you are either lucky enough to still throw down at any moment and say YAAAAS, or you decide to give it up and just lose it). You’re call Froto!
It is when we do not understand this powerful response to pleasure that we freak out and shut it down until it no longer begs to be nurtured. When (healthy) arousal becomes a dirty and filthy thing and we fail to discuss it, that is when nothing works anymore.
I could not imagine having to retrieve the “power to shake the sheets” with some weird scientific drug. Not to mention pricy! Ouch. NASA should find a planet, name it Viagra and see how many aliens would be willing to walk around with a woody all day! I bet they wouldn’t pay for it!
You see, being horny is a sweet little gift from God and a precious one at that. Ask folks who can no longer get an erection, or in the case of women, find true happiness during sex when there is NEVR A SATISFYING orgasm? I bet they feel they are not living their fullest life and there is some serious frustration stuck somewhere in their aura I am sure. Check Chakra #2! Get that mother unblocked!
Folks, as MUCH as I could go one about this topic, I have to get let you get back to your day.
But let me leave you with one profound thought on Horniness.
“It makes no matter if you kiss a frog or a prince”.
“It only matters that you are happy and you feel it.”
Clap Your Hands
(Disclaimers— If you have a rare medical condition that warrants taking clinical meds to stabilize an erection, then by all means, do it. Don’t be offended at me for “poking” fun at you but I KNOW MOST of the time, this is a mental issue that started well before the Penis decided not to pop anymore so consider a session with a therapist who understands the Chakra System.)
(And, sex should be engaged in by two consenting parties and never used as a tool to control, manipulate or abuse another person. And since requires that you become unified in a “Plasmaticulos Way”, you may want to consider the universal tie that binds you before you engage…….)
That is all.